| Members True Feelings after World
Harmony Day 2003
The WHD experience is just magical for everyone
involved. It pushes an individual’s potential beyond their
wildest imagination.
Through this journey, our spiritual-self
surfaced and led us to understand our physical-self better.
Especially so for Greta and Hairul because, by organising
it they grew with a mind beyond their age.
Greta, besides developing her other hidden
talents such as film making, writing, producing, and editing
the film WHD 2003 with great enthusiasm and happiness; is
working with her spiritual partner - her soul.
She has what it takes to change the behavior
of youth by touching every soul, because her energy is so
contagious.
As a mother I have great pride in the way
she writes, especially her poems. It was so amazing to watch
her grow and blossom with a burning desire to have meaning
in her life. As she told me, “Mama I’m not like you, I don’t
want to save the world, I just want meaning in my life and
WHD gives meaning to my life that I care and I could make
a different.”
I know that Greta gives me much wealth. Wealth
of the Spirit of World Harmony.
Greta Georges Wrote
Hi all,
Well, it is certainly great to see some steam
happening. I believe that is coming into place. There are
many battering from the media and some individuals about the
"real intention" of peace rally, i.e. the candle
light concert, but hey you can never ever silence the critics.
Even more so the inner ones, but you can certainly learn from
it. And ONE up for all the people making an effort for PEACE!!
Let me share with you all, my thoughts about
WHD. (Including my inner critic)
World Harmony Day
The preparations that led to this One day
were a journey into my own soul. It is not only about spreading
the message of peace and harmony to the world but rather finding
a place in your own heart that speaks of peace and harmony.
The way that we handled challenges and the spirit that had
guided and pushed this group is a worthy experience that cannot
be brought with money.
We are supposed to comment about what we
felt on the show, but as a host being up on stage and occupied
with the happenings and the next item and what to say, I fared
much better spelling out my frame of mind and discoveries
through the journey of WHD. As this is what it is, not a one-day
affair but a period of much learning especially for its members.
The lessons learnt are priceless, of great passion and most
of the times, painful.
Relationships-- that is the basis of our
group, the web that binds our hearts together.
• Firstly to achieve harmony in one‘s life,
one would assume the best place to start is with your immediate
family,
• secondly with friends,
• thirdly, spreading the glorious message to other people.
I suppose then that gives us the right to
voice our cause. For if no such essence is felt then what
is there to speak of?
Perfection is not possible however, especially
when dealing with already fragile human ties. To be completely
honest, there were times that I felt like a complete fraud.
When feelings of disunities and disappointment is bottled
up, like a pressure cooker the negativity comes out short
but sharp and extremely dangerous when released. My sentiments
are that with each WHD I have opened more “reve de moi” Dreams
of my own true self that I want to be. This ambition does
not come without pain, infecting the road with needles and
thumbtacks poised to pierce your soul with every step. Is
that the only way to push for growth?
The question that plays in my head as I painstaking
try to place my foot down to avoid the perils but now is already
another bloody step. Is it worth it? What do I want to be?
Who Cares?
My questions ceased the need to be answered
as interaction with many of the genuinely generous beautiful
beings showed me their attainment through silence.
The tranquility in one particular person
really touches my heart. This person taught me with the genuine
smile in his eyes that World Harmony must first be achieved
within. He has touched my life.
That is the success of WHD when you start
to feel the rhythm of a being, a ‘Human Being’. Sharing the
immerse pleasure of being in presence. When you touch lives
without even having to utter a word or stand up to declare,
“I am Grace”. Because peace is already in your eyes.
The lesson in being human and understanding
the humanistic quality that drives us to greatness is certainly
a great one. There are no 12 steps programmes of achieving
“World Peace” but there is only one place to start. Content
ourselves with being “Seekers of Unity”, “Lovers of Harmony”.
Live it in our own terms and even when we feel like a “FRAUD”
realise that is a lesson in itself.
You can silence all the critics by
"Living Peace In our very own EYEs"
Love and Light
Greta Georges
Viki Chang Wrote
Subject: Let’s move on…
Hi, brothers and sisters of WHD and Humanity,
We wanted to have the beach meeting to share
on a very social and casual setting to know one another and
to speak our hearts out without fear and judgment. And there
should not be, because all of us are affiliated through WHD
and we are also brothers and sisters in humanity. Right now,
none of us know any of us and it's a pity because I feel that's
the very first thing we ought to do: know one another and
come together with a clean heart and honesty, sharing what
we really feel. After all this is the purpose of WHD, tolerance
acceptance and understanding of differences that one another,
love, peace and harmony.
It must start with us otherwise WHD is a FARCE. And I see
that honesty is the only way to do that. Therefore, your honest
sharing with us your thoughts is so wonderful and beautiful.
I personally am grateful. It is only with constructive criticisms
we all grow. So, we need you and your honesty!!! Smile!!
You see; all of us somehow by fate are thrown
into each other lives through WHD. Personally, I feel, we
need to know one another!!! This is a social and humanitarian
group not a job.
I am a working adult striving for my dreams
and career. I need to balance my time between my classes,
work, life, my business projects and love life (if any) my
tuitions, family. The last things I want in my life is to
have a job and unpaid for!!!
Just to share with all, I learn to LOVE and
to LIVE. From WHD I learnt to GIVE. I feel a sense of Mission
and I love the world and I love the people in it. When I see
the retrenchment news, my heart goes out to the fathers, mothers
and children who bear the brunt of hardship. When I see the
images on news about lives lost, my heart bleeds for them
too. My heart goes out to soldiers they are brothers, boyfriends,
husbands too.
So, WHD personally, is my own way of saying I need to do something
for humanity.
So, you see WHD as a joy not a chore for
me. Once, I got this straight, the rest of my being follows.
And with my involvement as a volunteer, I
have gained so much and grown in certain ways spiritually
and physiologically than I have given. I feel joy in my heart.
I would like to share, with you my story.
I hope you all can share yours too. With genuine hearts WHD
will go a long way.
As with WHD event, I would like to say, we
are not professionals and full time social workers. Definitely,
we need more improvements. But having come thus far with only
a handful of devotees, and pulling it off, I personally feel
is was a great success.
Please, tell everyone in WHD your heartfelt
feelings. Peace and Harmony belongs to the people of the world,
not any of one of us. No one person can achieve it alone.
So WHD belongs to all of us, right, Sunflower?
Come and be involved at any level of commitment
you feel comfortable. We need to start as friends and not
just through emails.
VEC
Sunflower Chong Wrote,
Subject: Straight From My Heart
Date: Tue, 18 Mar 2003 14:32:21 +0800
Hi Everyone,
Let's make 31-3-2003 at the Substation Candlelight
Concert For Peace as our next meeting place. Hope to see all
of you there. I will be bringing the candles.
After WHD, Gabriel asked Hainee to arrange
for him to meet up with her girls to talk about WHD. She has
arranged for Gabriel to meet up with her girls this afternoon
in her school.
Yesterday Hainee called me up to have dinner
with her girls, as they will be sleeping over in the school.
Hainee felt it would be very good for the girls if WHD team
could spend some time with them to talk to them about life
and at the same time built the connections for WHD future
projects. Greta and I will be spending this evening with them,
so if you are free please join us later too.
Greta and I will be bringing a cake to thank
them on WHD team behalf. We will be showing them the WHD footage
too. Most importantly I will be telling them why we are doing
WHD, as I realize after the event of WHD, even the members
are confused of WHD objectives. I supposed some of you have
not thoroughly gone through the website vigilantly and read
the necessary write up & stuffs.
Please do take some time to read the important story of how
WHD 200220022002 came about. It is very essential to understand
how WHD started, as it is very disturbing in some aspects
that some do not have any ideas how WHD started and chose
to create their own separate understandings of our beginning.
WHD came about because the world is NOT in
Harmony (if the world is peaceful, don't you think if I do
WHD, people will say that I am crazy) and I was propelled
and further driven by my conscience that WHD is born to create
an awareness and understanding that we have only ONE World
for all, so please learn how to share this world before peace
can prevail.
World Harmony Day Declaration
1) To have a conscience after the incident
in WTC.
2) To promise ourselves that on this day forward no more violence
should be
use to resolve conflicts.
3) To remind the future generation not to take peace for granted.
If any of the member felt WHD is too highly political because
WHD objective is to stop all violence in whatever ways even
bombing, than I am afraid you are with the wrong people.
Gabriel said that he was very disturbed after
viewing the WHD video on that night as we were calling to
stop the bombing in Iraq. In short, he equated stopping the
war in Iraq is political and decided that he is not comfortable
to be with WHD. I asked him, “Do you like Iraq to be bomb?”
He said no. So, does this mean you are political? No he said.
I told him that when we do not want bombing, this mean we
are people with conscience.
He said maybe within a couple of months he
might be able to or not to make up his mind to be with WHD
or even a possibility that when comes the year 2004, he would
still be uncertain about his stand to be with us. Thus, in
response to his Absolute Indecisiveness, I further reiterated
to him that WHD would not be able to accommodate someone like
that especially at this point.
Someone who cannot confirm his own principle
stands by being indecisive. Its a matter of deciding to choose
to agree absolutely with WHD values and objectives or disagree
with it and not be part of the committee because in a near
future his uncertainty and capabilities of being indecisive,
might lead the group to confusion through not being able to
make up his mind to set a stand and also his substantial negativity.
BUT it appears to be quite SCEPTICAL that he is very confident
to talk to Haines’s girls about WHD.
What upset me most was that he has spoken
to me that some of the members felt the same way with him
and as the days goes by they are also not sure of WHD. So
if it is the case then why don’t they come forward and let
me know instead through him. Well, if some of you do feel
the same way as Gabriel that WHD is too highly political;
please feel free to voice out your opinion. We do not force
anyone to be with us, everyone that are with us do it only
on their own free will with the same understanding and must
be able to stand up for the principles and objectives of WHD.
You can start with understanding and learning about how WHD
200220022002 comes about through The Story of WHD 200220022002.
On Sunday, Greta brought me to meet up with
an environmental activist guy named Grant. He personally felt
WHD should change its principal course and be promoting the
environmental instead in order to create Harmony. He stood
on a strong ground to oppose the true reason why I did WHD
that is in actual fact to have ‘The Consciousness’ after SEPT
11: etc. (as stated above). In contrary, he urged that WHD
should be “tree-planting day”, before he could consider whether
or not he would join us. With his strong opposing grounds
in the beliefs against the original objectives and beginnings
of WHD, he would be very unsuitable to be with us to strengthen
the actual foundation of me doing this WHD.
Gabriel also initially felt that WHD should
be promoting education for the children, thus mis-establishing
WHD's cause as for "Motivation Education" for the
children instead. That summarizes his differences, which he
had reluctantly chosen not to be straight forward about.
Nazry on the other hand wanted Quiblat to
co-host WHD in namesake. I told him it was not possible because
even being a Muslim myself, I don't want WHD to be related
to any religion. WHD must be Universal and the main objective
is to create “Universal Core Values” for the future generation
to bind them together as one people with this value that is
“to share, care and love by understanding the people’s need”.
Our emphasis is on “One World for all” and
not “One God for all”. On top of it, there are many segments
of the society who do not believe in God but they do believe
there is only One World; this is what going to hold us together
if WHD is to be successful. So he is not with us, like Gabriel
because we do not share the same ideology and belief.
Only Viki believed WHD is for the people
and WHD cause must try to reach out to everyone to help us
build a better world for our children through creating awareness
and educating the masses of the importance of being proactive
in life. For this very reason I would like Ann (who came that
night on WHD) to join us because when I was on the phone with
her, she said that WHD should not just reach out to the young
but must try to reach the adult too. She is so right!
Not even my daughter know what's WHD all
about, if she did, she will not be convinced by Grant that
WHD should be “trees planting day”, instead WHD is only planting
“Seeds of Peace”. Read carefully the wise words that I have
send to all of you in one of the quote about planting seeds.
Only Hairul knew what WHD objectives and he does not want
me to compromise just to make the members happy in order to
get more membership for WHD. It will be all for the wrong
reason.
Love, Light and Peace
Sunflower
Viki’s Reply,
Well written, Sunflower,
Just to reiterate my point, WHD is for everyone...man,
women, young and old...the human race.
I think our vision and mission is clear enough. Maybe many
are not clear as WHD is still at an infancy stage. It's ok.
Let's not expect all to view WHD in the way we expect them,
after its entire name has yet to be established. Just think,
it took Levi Strauss over 200 years to build their name before
everyone in the world, now, knows by the sheer mention of
the name, that it sells jeans.
Let's not be disheartened. Whatever good
people do, there will always be cold showers. But, this is
part of growing up, an inevitable phase of maturity, isn't
it? Let's set our sights on the horizon and the big future.
Let's be patient.
So much discussion about the Vision Let's
move on...to Mission ... means action. Now that we are so
clear let's take action and start work again.... I have some
plans that I have discussed with Greta about some achievable
yet significant projects. I shall share with all when the
time is right.
Hairul...you wrote very well, all your thoughts
and I want to compliment your dedication. Thanks.
Keep the spirit and morale up everyone!!
Life is tough and difficult, so let's help simplify it and
make it easy!!
Viki
Hairul Wrote,
Subject: What a great experience?
Hi,
Its been almost a month since World Harmony
Day 2003...the day which we all have worked together for…
for the past few months or so, or even longer, period. All
the great efforts that we have put in together have been very
fruitful for us, as a working group or even for some of us
individually too. To summarize, I strongly believe that each
of us as an individual have benefited through this WHD. Be
it either through being in the working group and witnessing
the good and hard times in different aspect trying to pull
this WHD through, despite all the challenges that we have
faced, or even as friends who have come forward to be the
supporting agencies and fuelling us to keep going despite
having to deal with the odds at times. Agree?
We got to admit too that from the period
before the WHD till now, we were subconsciously undergoing
a paradigm shift in our self. Through realizing that perhaps
it’s very healthy to agree that in a very subtle manner and
effective approach, WHD had brought us back to our place again.
Thus, strengthening us spiritually and mentally as an individual.
In the beginning, embarking on the WHD ...I
had no idea what it would be like to be in the working group.
Seeing, it is believing it, and being in it is like living
a period of heart-pounding moment/experience everyday in my
life during the preparation for WHD.
No one would be able to have the wonderful
privilege of living with 2 "very-high-voltage" human
being Greta & Sunflower, Nonetheless; I have to confess
that I feel very blessed and fortunate to be where I am now.
Furthermore also I am very honored to be around dynamic people
who make things happen when they want to. My path is LIGHTED.
WHD 2003 had been a very special event in
its own offerings and goals set upon it. It should not be
compared or critically judge upon WHD 2002 at Suntec City.
The cause of both WHD last year and this year was the same,
just the style of approach and means of expression were different
slightly. These are contributing factors, which are inevitable
base on the theme that was set initially. We should focus
our attention to the achievement of WHD 2003, instead of spending
the next period of our life post - WHD, trying to figure out
the unchangeable facts about WHD. We should begin to accept
that both WHD were successful and things cannot be the same.
Instead we should begin to accept that they are unique in
their own values and lesson to be derived from it.
We'll look upon together on how to compile
the lesson learnt through the WHD events/day in order that
another person's life in future could benefit together for
the future generation to come - Like in a book. (WHD Story)
Thank you,
May the Light be shined on you too?
De Rul
Ken Loh Wrote,
Hello,
It is pretty late right now, I'm feeling
quite tired, but before I hit the sack, I just want to share
some thoughts with you. As you may have known, WHD took place
today. Actually, a number of friends had told me they'd come
for WHD few days ago, but backed out last minute. Some of
them because other friends could not make it, and some who
seem to be very enthusiastic about it at first, but never
heard from them again as the day approaches. And some totally
didn't reply but I suppose they were too busy to reply.
Even the reporters, whom we had sent out
press invites to, never came today, even though these reporters
came during the press conference. The reporter from the Straits
Times at the press conference interviewed us at length. But
the article in Straits Times never did come out. Later on,
we learnt that the authorities are very concerned about the
sensitivities involved with WHD, especially with all the peace
protests happening in other parts of the world. And I guess
that explains why we were "boycott" by the press
today.
But the 700 plus people who came today have
witnessed and know that WHD is Nothing more than a pure intention
to promote LOVE and PEACE among people of the world (It was
even more than the number of people who came last year!).
There were people from different walks of life. It was a wonderful
sight to see everyone, so different, and yet came together
for this event, lighting candles together in the name of harmony
and peace. People cheered and applause, and we could see peace
and happiness in their eyes. They were touched, and so were
we. Many asked for the websites and for our contacts, before
they leave. What makes this event so special is that it is
not an event organized by government bodies. It is not an
event that is commercialized. It is an event organized with
a pure intention, an event by the people, for the people.
We ended the program by going on stage to
speak a few words. Just to show everyone present that we are
just ordinary people behind this event, just to show them
that everyone can step forward and do what they feel is right,
even as ordinary people. We don't have to stand by and wait
for the Authorities to do everything for us. We don't have
to stand idly by and hope and pray that things in the world
will turn out better. We can do something about it. Our destiny
is in our hands. And this is the message we wanted to put
across today.
A friend asked me so what if we hold a WHD?
How much can we do to help the world just by organizing an
event on a day? He said Mother Theresa doesn’t need a World
Harmony Day to go around helping people in need. I think my
friend had shot himself in the foot. I told him Mother Theresa
didn't just stand by and hope and pray for the needy people.
She actually took actions to help them. And that is what the
people behind WHD are doing. The event is to create awareness.
It is a small step, but still, it is one step forward.
Well, still, as everyone knows this is Singapore.
It is difficult to do things, even though it is for a good
cause. We had gone through many difficulties to put up WHD.
There were so much red tapes, so much to watch out for, so
that we won't get into trouble with the law. It was difficult
to put up such a thing when the authorities look at you with
suspicious eyes. I find it so ironic that Singapore's major
news papers could write so much about peace protest all over
the world, but couldn't spare small space to about WHD, a
peaceful and beautiful event put up by ordinary Singaporeans
whose aim is not to challenge the authority and which happens
right here at home.
It is not for fame, but to inspire people
around us, Singaporeans especially, that we could stand up
and do something for a good cause, which we believe in. It
is to show the world that there are still Singaporeans who
care about humanity enough to want to do something, and that
Singaporeans are not all just concerned about money, money
and money. It is so ironic that the authority have encouraged
young people to stand up and make their view, but yet when
we tried to make our stand, we faced so many red tapes and
lack of support from the authority.
I was thus laughing bitterly to myself when
I read the Straits Times, the reports which says that very
few people dare to ask questions during SM Lee's talk in NTU,
and preferred just sitting there and listened. I was so amused
that someone could even say "Like most of my classmates,
I'm interested in what he has to say about the economy and
job market because I am graduating in a year's time, I don't
care so much about the worsening ties with Malaysia or the
looming war with Iraq because these are political and ethical
conundrums that don't have a direct and immediate impact on
my life." After I read this, I was like, what the...
My dear boy, if the world is getting more chaotic with wars,
terrorism and such, you must be silly to think it doesn't
have a direct and immediate impact on your life!! For goodness
sake, you can say bye bye to all your dreams of getting a
job! There won't even be a job market for you to talk about!!”
Well, ok, I guess you all may have been getting
tired to hear me ratter on and on these few days about World
Harmony Day... well, don't worry, I shall end here. It is
just my 2 cents worth of thoughts, which I just want to share
with you. Ok, take care; let's meet up again soon!
Cheers,
Ken
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